“I have control and this affirms it. I love you and all you are, please know I have reasons.”
Really. That’s what my Husband sent me in response to some insecurities I was having. Instead of waiting, wondering why little things weren’t happening, and stressing about how I was feeling, I typed it out in an email and basically asked if everything was going okay, if maybe I could do something differently.
He answered and I didn’t spiral. I’d like to repeat that… I DID NOT SPIRAL!! If you knew me, you’d know that’s big. Spiral is my middle name, but this is a much better way!