Perhaps the pedestal was not where they should have been to begin with?
I am not saying that in a bad way at all….I remember a former dominant partner of mine saying that it made him feel so much pressure… And that I didn’t see him as a real and flawed person… but more of an ideal
That’s the truth! I always hated it when people put me up on some weird pedestal… So much expectation that I could never live up to. I’d sabotage immediately just to breathe. I try to always remember that! (post was more of a general statement than anything)
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Perhaps the pedestal was not where they should have been to begin with?
I am not saying that in a bad way at all….I remember a former dominant partner of mine saying that it made him feel so much pressure… And that I didn’t see him as a real and flawed person… but more of an ideal
IDK. Maybe food for thought?
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That’s the truth! I always hated it when people put me up on some weird pedestal… So much expectation that I could never live up to. I’d sabotage immediately just to breathe. I try to always remember that! (post was more of a general statement than anything)
❤
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😀 good. I was sad for you
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I hope you are okay …
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I’m good! 🙂 Perhaps I should’ve put a disclaimer on the post.
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Lol
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