The other evening, I was cooking dinner, nothing new there. My day had been very busy and long, I had been going non-stop since I woke up – all I wanted to do was SIT DOWN. I certainly did not want to be cooking dinner. Two of the minions were in the kitchen bickering and my Husband was sitting at the bar, doing a lot of nothing.
I was tired, I was hungry and I was grumpy. Frankly, I was pissed off…and getting more pissed off by the second. I was trying to keep it in, trying to find the happy sub place in my mind, but it just wasn’t working. I was fuming! I’d just about had enough! I was at my breaking point, which is the exact moment Sir snuck up behind me. As I was stirring the food, He wrapped His strong arms around me, leaned down to my ear and rumbled “I like to see you cook for me, it makes me feel like the master of the house. It makes me feel like your master.”Â
Swoon.
Talk about feeling like an ass, though. I had been so angry and I’m so thankful I was able to keep it in check so that I could hear those words!
Yet another example of how a few seconds, a few words can change an entire mood and perspective. How stepping out of my head and silly feelings is beneficial to everyone.
I finished cooking that meal all by myself, even though Sir offered to help. I poured all my love into that food and served it up with the submission and reverence that my Sir deserves.
shygirl
Beauty in honesty and imperfection.xx
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Nothing better than acknowledgement by your Sir how much your actions mean to him, inside AND outside the bedroom!
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Indeed. I sometimes wonder if my wanting acknowledgement is less than submissive?! I really do thrive on it, though.
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Happiness is found in the small things of life.
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Swoon indeed…good for you…keeping it in check…the reward of hearing those words was priceless!!! Such a good Sir you have!!!
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He really is great. 🙂
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Many of your words echo in my head sometimes! Been there. ..too many times than I would like! Such an affirming moment for you both! Big hugs!
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It’s amazing what just a few words can do to cause a complete switch of gears (oddly enough I had somewhat of a similar experience yesterday with being pissed off and a few words changing to entire tone of my attitude!). *Hugs*
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Don’t get jealous, but I just swooned over your Sir a bit. Just a little bit…. 😉
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Omg! I almost woke up 12 three year olds! Giggle. Swoon away…from over there. 😉
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HA! Yeah, from over here, don’t worry!
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Sometimes it’s the small moments that make the lasting impression and change everything. 🌻
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