My favorite number and things that make me happy, other than sex or people 🙂
- Black eyeliner
- Bubble baths
- Clean, crunchy sheets
- Written words
- Chips & salsa
- Punk shows
- Funny movies
- Hand rubs
- Wood burning
- Sore muscles
- Hair dye
- Cream cheese icing
- Nail polish
- Skirts with pockets
- Slip on Vans
Happy, happy Tuesday!!
No longer will I accept the old turnaround. Taking my reaction to something, and saying it is the root, will not be tolerated anymore. Not only isn’t it fair, but that flipping-back-to-me stuff is guaranteed to be far more destructive than whatever happened to begin with.
I know I’ve taught the world to deal with me like this. I know I’ve absorbed all of this backwards blame. I know I’ve repeatedly apologized for having feelings. I know I’ve said I’m sorry when I never should have. Repeatedly. You see, I’ve always given in and accepted the blame because I’ve never felt worthy.
So from here on out, the only thing that is good enough for me is honesty. If you cannot give me that, if it’s too difficult to be forthcoming and true, well…you cannot be a part of my life at all. I don’t need fake friends or shitty periphial folk in my life. I’ll be 40 in a few months and I’m just too damn old to have my feelings repeatedly hurt by falseness, and then hurt again by blaming my feelings as the problem. No. Honesty or nothing. No more lies… Whether they be blatant lies, half-truths, or withheld information. They are all deceptive and I am over it.
I am full of faults and I make mistakes daily, but I am worth honesty. Maybe I’m not worth much else, but by god, I fucking demand honesty. And heaven help the next person that gets the effect and cause twisted.
So it’s Valentine’s Day. Such a silly little day to celebrate, but Sir overdoes every holiday. I think He loves me or something. 😉
I love Him, too, and I’m not empty handed! I found Him some gifts that are personal and (hopefully) meaningful.
Presents are fun all around, but mostly I’m just glad that Sir & I have the relationship we do. It is marriage, it is friendship, it is D/s, it is parenting, it is laughter, it is hard work, it is love, it is life…and it is more than enough.
Baby, I don’t have much
But what we have is more than enough
Happy Valentine’s Day. This song gets me in the feels. ❤❤❤